Where Self Trust is Everything & Autonomy Becomes Non-Negotiable
I couldn’t NOT do this work….
As a doula I encountered SO OFTEN stories of women unknowingly giving their power away in birth, saying things like “I had no idea that was an option” “I didn’t even know I could ask for that, do that, opt out of that”.
Losing autonomy by succumbing to the “I’m not allowed to” , “My doctor won’t LET me” narrative.
This trickled into motherhood and I quickly connected the dots between the loss of autonomy when birthing, to the loss of autonomy in motherhood.
It became obvious to me that I did things differently than most.
I went to culinary school as a 4.0 honor student, then shifted careers after spending thousands on a degree, to teach yoga and pursue entrepreneurship when I had NO idea what I was doing.
I opted out of an experimental shot when the whole world (including my close friends and family) deemed it safe and effective. Even when I was pressured, called selfish, and excluded from events - I stuck to my guns.
I chose unconventional health choices for my family that have sparked hard conversations, created tension & required me to hold boundaries.
I have pursued my soul's mission when it made no sense on paper to keep going. Through every pivot, set back and lack of income I stayed gritty because I just KNEW this is what I was meant to be doing.
I birthed my babies MY way, which involved bucking the system in a lot of ways & trusting my decisions even when outcomes did not look ideal from the outside.
I don’t regret a single one of these decisions.
It’s not about the outcome, it’s about having autonomy over your own fucking life.
-The Intuition Rebirth Doula.
Saying “trust your intuition” is pretty useless if you don’t actually know HOW to do that.